This is a question to ask. But many things, they can not go back. One of the biggest dislikes that a person can have is the impossibility of going back in time, when one wants to return. Return moments, go back on some decisions. Do different things and go back on things that we consent to or do not act on. Sometimes I say. Other times, shut up. Now it’s gone, the time has passed, the chance is gone, no more.
Repentance makes us think about what needs to be done now, what could have been done before, what we can still do, and what we really want to do. Reflection on possibilities. I stand on the ground about wills. What stands out? We have a chest full of unfulfilled dreams inside the chest. We have a box full of remorse saved in memory. But so what? Carry this weight for life? For what? The lost hours do not recover, but the same clock that passes the time, says that other hours will still come. Time to fix mistakes made. Then correct them.
Sometimes life tests us, sometimes it seems we are not good enough. There are days when everything seems to be so difficult. On several occasions we are lost, believing in the unreal versions we create of ourselves. Lost in real illusions of who we think we are. Learn this: Choose your real version. Without dressing dreams that no longer fit you. Know where you are, know what you want, and know where you want to go. Look at the horizon, there it is! Go ahead, without asking why.
Learning how to maintain your identity when you are in a relationship is hard work. Relationships are never going to be perfect. You will always have to try to make them work. And even then, sometimes, they still might not work. However, one of the most common relationship mistakes we make as humans is trusting the other person too much.
That way your dreams and actions will not progress because you will always feel that you are missing something – a part of yourself. If you depend on your something to be happy, feel safe or go out and do things, then you can never achieve true happiness. In fact, happiness comes from yourself and you are responsible for finding and keeping it. Your relationships shouldn’t affect your self-esteem. Whether you’re struggling to accept your independence in your way of life or to allow yourself to be an individual, these tips are for you.
Talk about your emotions and desires.The best way to become an individual is to recognize what makes you “you”. Your emotions, desires, and interests constitute you as a person, and you should never allow any of them to go unstated when it matters. If you are at peace with your own thoughts, dreams and feelings, then you can be a better friend or lover to others.
Get away from everything. Spending all day, every day with someone for a long time becomes exhausting. Take a break every now and then to relax, go out with yourself, or just meet someone else. It’s okay to get angry at the people you love, but it’s important to know when you need to let go and get centered again. You may even find that taking breaks from each other occasionally really strengthens your relationship and helps you keep your identity even more separate.
Embrace your different perspectives on life. Everyone has different worldviews, and your partners, friends and family are no exception. Although you must agree on the most important issues (according to you and them), you will eventually disagree. As long as you don’t have to sacrifice your core beliefs to maintain the relationship, it’s great to have opposing opinions. This leads to interesting discussions and you learn more about the other person in the process.
Know your value. Basing your self-esteem on your relationship with your partner is dangerous. If you believe your life is going to fall apart without a certain person in your life, you need to re-evaluate your relationship with that person. Because you’ll be fine on your own, and no one should have the ability to take a part of you, your personality, or your joy. Any relationship that makes you feel incapable of yourself is unhealthy and potentially toxic. Relationships are designed to encourage you to be the best version of yourself, not to regress to codependency.
Find your own hobbies. This is probably the easiest and most important thing you can do right now to substantially change your way of life. If you want to be an individual, you need to find things you are interested in; this can include activities you can do at home or in public. Both individuals in a relationship should feel free to explore their interests without hindrance. It’s important to find your particular passion and not abandon it if your other part doesn’t want to accompany you.
What is worth it is to enjoy the immensity and depth of the sea to wash the body and not to drown the soul. Enjoy all this vastness of answers that life offers you. We think too much about our worries, when we should live longer without having them, living with hope, peace and love. Discover yourself, it’s beautiful when it happens! Listen to the voice of your heart, it is she who will guide you, it is she who will tell you where your happiness is. You can start over whenever you want. Do not listen to the world, because there are few who want to applaud you. Do not listen to fear and uncertainty, just want to make you give up. Listen to yourself, hear who loves you for sure. Hear your deep silence. In it are all the keys and answers, all windows and doors, all directions and paths. If you learn to listen wisely, you will discover in your silence the most beautiful voice that can come from you, you will discover within yourself the best advice you can hear. You will find that starting over is always accurate.
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